Abundance

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Oh, you’re still unmarried?
Oh, no kids?
Oh, your kids are all girls?
Oh, all boys?
Oh, you’re a single parent…
Oh, you’re an entrepreneur.
Oh, you’re an employee…
Oh, you’re an artist…
Oh, you’re an accountant…

Most of the time, people find facts and figures that are disappointing things in you.

Even my family and relatives who are kind people were verbose expressing their frustration ’cause I’m unmarried at this age.

I also hear people, although married, would constantly be questioned about kids, livelihood, etc.

I don’t know when will you ever be completely impressive to someone.

And that’s the lesson here — you might never be. And who cares. It only matters when you yourself care.

I think most people stopped asking me about what’s lacking when they felt that there was none. I seriously don’t care about what lacks. All that matters feel accessible to me.

Just another note, I think those who are truly happy in this life won’t need to ask these questions and provide mindless remarks. ‘Cause they know what joy truly is — it’s an internal state of being not dependent on the abundance of externalities, but in the abundance of spirit.

Happy Sunday!