Someone told me, “These are what people say about me. And it bothers me.”
I answered, “All my life, I have been afraid of ghosts. And that fear kept me awake whenever I travel alone. [And having less sleep takes a toll on me. It kept me from performing 100%, it kept me from seizing the day, and worse, it made me feel irritated.]
But one day, I ceased being afraid. And it’s not because I was certain that they do not exist. In my mind, they still do. But I’ve accepted that they’re somewhere lurking under the bed but I have a goal – to ready myself for the opportunities of tomorrow.
..and that goal mattered more.
Some people will always have great ideas on how you should run your thoughts, actions, life.. Few voices can help you, but most of them are just noise.
If you know what you want for yourself, the thoughts you will entertain and the steps you will take will be towards that more important goal. The thoughts will be of self-awareness of your imperfections and the actions filled with will and hope that one can change for the better.
Attach yourself to the goal and detach yourself from the ghosts. They do exist but we all have to be readier (better) for the opportunities of tomorrow.”